No doubt a lot of people game the system. I have no biological children, but I have many kids and grandkids. It really pisses me off that so many people have kids they abandon. My parents have 21 biological grandkids, but I can't even wrap my head around the number of step grandkids. Kids don't get a choice about being brought into this world but need a family to nurture them and help them grow. Our family adopts kids like a cat lady adopts stray cats. I've even had friends that wouldn't attend their own parents funeral but cried when my dad died.