Call it coincidence if you like, but I've found many instances where the Lord took vengeance when I decided not to. These are just the instances when it was hard to ignore, so they serve as clear examples.
When I was a lost young man in the drug scene, there was a guy offering deals too good to be true. I was skeptical and when I checked around it turns out he was known for robbing people and therefore was trying to rob me. Several months later he was killed in a robbery gone wrong.
Next, some sodomoite in college said some unkind words to me that seemed very unprovoked. I remember just shaking my head at him and leaving. Mind you this is a time in life where I could not afford another strike on my record let alone expulsion, so I was forced to be peaceful. Later that year the young man hung himself.
After that I was living with some roommates. Some random guy from the local college befriended my roommate and with a sob story this freeloader ended up living in our already cramped house. He was defrauding us, since he was only let in under promises of money coming in. He knew damn well money wasn't coming, so after that became apparent we told him he needed to find a job. But he kept making excuses.
So this guy eventually did find a job (at what point I'm not sure, we were no longer living in that house together). He managed to piss off one of his fellow employees to the point he was stabbed to death.
So in conclusion, we should all fear the Lord and treat each other better. It is better if we don't try to "get even" with anyone despite what our flesh wants. Food for thought.
So what does this mean, man?
We just have to fight it for the greater good or retaliation doesn't affect karma or what exactly?
One thing that I hate more than anything is my wife telling me that my "mother" will get it one day for kidnapping our daughter. She kidnapped her NOW, I genuinely don't give two fucks what happens to her in three lifetimes, we are here and I'm going through this God damned bullshit RIGHT FUCKING NOW, so naturally I would want retribution RIGHT NOW.
but alas, ive come to realize that this isnt how it works.
Its not my wrath to deliver.
She just used me/us to prove what a piece of shit she was and let the world know what her "Christian" beliefs REALLY were.
Sometimes it still gets me though.
The more our faith grows in the Lord, the less we care about retribution.
There is nothing wrong with justice, of course. But look at it this way. If you have the option to get your daughters back and you don't touch a hair on your wives head, would you be content with that?
No one is saying you don't do all you can for your daughters, but retribution or revenge doesn't help them.