I can entertain the idea that perhaps typical users don't talk about it online because they're not very tech savvy so they just assume they're doing something wrong when a website or piece of software malfunctions.
But it's simply not possible for nearly all of these software programmers, web developers and tech enthusiasts to not be talking about it online.
Operating systems, desktop software, phone apps, games, firmware & drivers, major corporate websites, banking websites, gov websites, utilities websites... everything.
Over the past 5+ years it has increasingly become the norm for it to be horribly designed, malfunctioning or broken; or only tested on a single device with a single OS/browser of a single version.
Actual humans would not refrain from talking about this programming plague but bots set to not expose DEI-driven destruction absolutely would refrain.
Bloatware is directly financed by hardware manufacturers to force people into constant buying newer computer hardware.
Browsers and computer games are what sustain hardware demand in public, ANNs and enterprise bloatware do that for businesses.
In practice, you don't really need more powerful computer than you have 10 years ago. There is no any fundamentally new tasks that could demand more processing power or memory. It is perfectly possible to configure your software to make all of it run smoothly and comfortably on something like 10-years old i5-5XXX with 16Gb RAM. Even most modern games that worth any of your time will run nice.
So, hardware manufacturers fund numerous horrible fat and slow web frameworks, along with game industry, to somehow eat your computer processing power. Most ordinary people will not dig deep into this, and will just decide they need new computer when something will lag or malfunction in the web.
Add to this lowering the skills of web-monkeys, it is unbeliveable, because nobody could imagine something lower than programming skill of web-monkey, but this is happening.
So, here we go.