Why is it they are always so connected

a) All way (inception towards death) sets each one within apart (life).

b) many are tricked together so that few can remain apart. Those apart resonate with nature; while those together shape dissonance among themselves.

c) all the vetting processes established by a chosen one towards ones choice imply a setting apart, a distancing of self from others; an erection of center while cutting off circumference.

d) ones consent to suggested pluralism (they) and collectivism (connected) prevents one from discerning self as being one apart from one another, hence not connected.

e) oligarchy aka OLIGOS (only) ARKHEIN (be first) aka ONE, hence "there can be only one".

f) only from perspective of many are other ones viewed as "few", because ones consent to be part of many (suggested collectivism) tempts one to view everything through the lens of a collectivist mindset.

Whatever one of a many sees; he tries to categorize; to brand alike; to amalgamate; to mix into conformity; to affix a label to; to seal the meaning of; to define as, to choose a side for etc. Nature doesn't do any of that...those who ignore natural (perceivable) for artificial (suggested) choose to redo reality with fiction.

In short...connections among others exist only within ones mind, hence binding oneself, while permitting others free range.