repetitive moments

Oneself represents repetitive (choice) within momentum (balance).

w/o destroying both sides

a) try stepping away from the fictitious center by discerning to be center (choice) of surrounding (balance).

b) all the conflicts of reason tempt aka invite one into a center; into an arena; into a controlled environment; into a collective; into a stadium; into a congregation; into a pit etc....consenting to such tempts one to ignore ones discernible position.