have visceral reactions and recoil...the mere thought is absurd

Abuser keep suggesting the abused to be bad for being abused...not just the ever increasing accusation package (antisemitic; racist; bigoted; homophobic, sexist etc.), but also the systems in place to interrogate the abused over and over again, while seeking for any contradictions or emotional responses, as a means to keep the abuse going, and the abused a perpetual victim...it's all about holding onto; reliving and not overcoming abuse, which allows the abuser to play protector of the abused, while claiming persecution by other abusers.