Everyone is different. I was raised by a single father. I can pay attention to the message being conveyed while considering the fucks and emphasis. I have family that absolutely shut down if they hear a single swear word.

I find that to be censorship. Especially when I'm emotional, and I'm interrupted because someone wants to nitpick a word choice. Fuck that, I don't even bother with those people.

Having said all that. I was also raised to understand appropriate time, and place. I can't recall ever speaking profanity in a church.