I feel you.

I didn't necessarily mean "Death should be all consuming" but in my circle this sort of thing isn't posted on socials until there's been time to notify some people either by phone or in person.

It just seems a bit sacrilege to be hovering over the Tweet button waiting for the flatline. "Aaaaaaaand she's dead. 💔🤱😭 link to my GoFundMe for funeral costs."