The real issue is that the the underlying goal of these divide and conquer tactics is to make sure nobody ever takes responsibility for anything, if it's always someone else's fault that means it was always someone else's responsibility which means you are not a leader and have no power, and that's frankly how most people prefer to live, so everyone gets their scapegoat to blame so that way they never failed to uphold any responsibility since they were never responsible as they are not leaders and have no real purpose or power, just mindless eaters, no it was the white men or the jews or the women or the millenials or whichever demographic they they want to blame, so in the example from OP it's "women who are the leaders and are therefore responsible for everything while we men are the useless eaters who have been let down by women" but people think it's a totally different angle of superiority, as intended