I've cut people out of my life 100% and abruptly for trying to defend or make excuses for stuff like this, I don't even care if they are just ignorant edge lords when it comes to their adult only aesthetic preferences but the moment they try to justify involving children it's over, same with gay people, I don't care if they're gay but the moment they try to shrug off being sexually obscene in public in front of kids they are dead to me, it's such a huge obvious line in the sand there's no excuse