If a child attempts to initiate a sexual relationship with an adult, it's the adult's job to say no.
The reason it's impossible to have a non-abusive sexual relationship between adults and pre-pubescents is that their brains literally work differently. Kids brains are far more trusting and open, because they need to rely on adults, and thus can be manipulated by adults. After puberty their brain chemistry and even structure changes to be that of an adult.
For this reason I have far less of a problem with a 40yo/20yo relationship than a 20yo/14yo.
If a child attempts to initiate a sexual relationship with an adult, it's the adult's job to say no.
The reason it's impossible to have a non-abusive sexual relationship between adults and pre-pubescents is that their brains literally work differently. Kids brains are far more trusting and open, because they need to rely on adults, and thus can be manipulated by adults. After puberty their brain chemistry and even structure changes to be that of an adult.
For this reason I have far less of a problem with a 40yo/20yo relationship than a 20yo/14yo.