If you can't get a girlfriend, can't be productive at work, and can't connect to others socially, I just don't see where porn has anything to do with it.

This is exactly the problem.

Are you sure you can't do any of that, or do you not care that you aren't doing any of that because you can console yourself with porn?

Why even bother trying anything in the first place if you can just get infinite dopamine hits? Don't build, don't explore, don't fight for what's yours, don't resist, goy...