The issue with Alcohol is that it disconnects the soul from the body allowing demonic influence as the opening gives them some control. That's why people act aggressive when drunk.
It also destabilizes soul harmony which is backwardness and lead to emotional instability and bad decision making.
People say Jesus drank wine but they don't mention what led up to that. He was thirsty and told the Roman soldier he is thirsty so they gave him wine. He's not going to complain while nailed to a cross. It was acceptable at the time. It's not because he wanted wine.
It's not about the right or wrongness of drinking wine. The question is does it help or hurt me in the long run.
You're conflating drinking wine with getting drunk on wine. Jesus literally ordained wine to be drunk as His blood and wine is thusly transformed during divine liturgy. So wine, becoming the blood of Christ is the greatest gift of all (along with the bread transformed into the body) and the path to eternal life (John 6:53-56)
The general rule in the Christian worldview is that nothing is intrinsically wrong or sinful (because God made everything good), but it becomes such when done out of place and lacking its purpose, i.e. when it's fallen and divorced from God.
Protestants tend to ignore such subtleties and this leads them to radical gnostic positions like puritanism or iconoclasm where the material and physical is seen as problematic and not as necessary and good.
He was telling disciples to absorb his high vibe and used wine and bread as tools to demonstrate it.
Sure He did. He was like "You gotta feel my vibe, man. We're all energy and the universe consciousness, we're all one. The world is an illusion, dude".
I love Burning man hippy Jesus.