The sun light we observe always behaves like local light, as does the moon, showing a single hot spot reflection as you can replicate, and as photos by high altitude balloon confirm. The light from the sun is not as a uniform, parallel light wave, which is what would come from a sun that is 93 million miles away, and the moon, to a much lessor degree.

You need to define 'local light'.

But parallel light waves from the sun, hitting the moon, should result in a shadow that is 2,200 miles across. The size of the moon. This is because parallel light will not wrap and create a soft outer and darker center shadow.

You seem to be confusing laser light and wavelengths with parallel light. Start by defining local light please.