I'm as guilty as anyone at being triggered and outraged when I hear about women's space being invaded. Such as the women's shelters that are admitting biological males who then rape and abuse them.
But I need to remind myself to frame this issue in a positive and affirming way for women and my values. Not reacting and giving narcs their supply (if you know narcissists, you know what I mean).
I mean I've got more than enough outrage for this and everything else. It is a worthy cause to fight against. That being said I don't think it deserves a majority of our energy, and it doesn't get mine.
But if you see evil, call it out, correct it, and go back to working on what you work on.
I'm as guilty as anyone at being triggered and outraged when I hear about women's space being invaded. Such as the women's shelters that are admitting biological males who then rape and abuse them.
But I need to remind myself to frame this issue in a positive and affirming way for women and my values. Not reacting and giving narcs their supply (if you know narcissists, you know what I mean).
I mean I've got more than enough outrage for this and everything else. It is a worthy cause to fight against. That being said I don't think it deserves a majority of our energy, and it doesn't get mine.
But if you see evil, call it out, correct it, and go back to working on what you work on.