If you want to dive deeper, do some reading on the limbic system and the role it plays in personality, perceptions, memory, emotional regulation, interpersonal behaviors, etc & then do some reading on limbic system development, how it works, what effects development and what causes development damage (limbic system stops developing before fully developed), also read into neural connections and pathways, how they are formed and strengthened, how this varies with the age of the brain, do some reading on how the limbic system operates in response to stimuli that evokes terror and the neurological science of trauma, etc there's plenty of little rabbit holes to go down and they're all interconnected, free will is real but it's much harder for some than others to "do the right thing" or simply act right, doesn't mean they can't but for some it is much more unpleasant and difficult in certain types of situations, for a very intriguing spiritual take on it I highly recommend a book called People Of The Lie, has religious undertones but not overbearing, more so philosophical psychology, but yeah the neuroscience backs it up, like back from before science became a complete joke