The other day i had a thread about something changing me and making me have gay thoughts. The thread has since been deleted, and surprisingly, those mean comments made me realize being gay is definitely not OK, that isn't who i am as i identify as straight, and in the end, i feel better about myself.
So thank you, too all those responses i got.
It almost ruined my marriage, and my life is way better now, that's all I'll say on that. As for the gay thing, many people have found that if they stopped watching gay porn, that it virtually eliminated their same sex attraction.