TLDR: When you are at war you should not make the mistake of assuming that your enemy is as moral as you are.

If your enemy is completely immoral, yet you try to be kind hearted with them you will be destroyed! I believe a lot of people especially in the west unfortunately fall for trying to be too kind to those who are in the process of genociding them.

There is no war being waged upon you...you are delusional and paranoid...you can stop.