There are plenty of gays that just want to be able to more easily deal with illness and death, like any sensible people. Their mother wants to keep life support on? Tough titty. Nephew thinks he deserves the house, and you're not even related? Sucks to be you, with that old will. I've known some on both extremes, and the sensible exist. I was still against legalizing gay marriage, though, because of those people obviously being used as pawns, and were thrown under the bus as soon as SCOTUS legislated from the bench.

Ultimately, this is like a pandemic, or wildfire. You have to get your own family out of danger, but otherwise let it spread and cause a great deal of damage. It will burn itself out, and create a traditionalist backlash...or Hitler 2.0 (and today, I'm not that sure that wouldn't be deserved, or even a better outcome).