Just hearing of such vast diversity in the arrangement makes my heart sing, I wish the best for you and your new soul mate.

It is clear the first thing you must do is look deeply within yourself to find the faults you are exhibiting when entering a disagreement or otherwise difficult communication, It is likely you are holding onto some semblance of so called 'free will' what must be done is to first listen and hear what the other person is telling you and next you relinquish any misgivings you may have had about the information.

The next thing to discuss, is this fixed position you seem to project from, this claim that you are a male all of the time throws up red flags, you should look inside your confused self as due to your evident desire for men, perhaps you are a woman just waiting to come out, half the time? perhaps your soul mate and you should signal when preparing to shift from one to the other and this could be the salvation you need to reduce conflict.

If none of this works, look forward to the suicide booth soon available on a corner near you.