If you really want to understand you might want to check out conpro. It's there specifically for people like you.

If your worldview is race oriented, you are a racist, and conpro is the community for you!

It isn't what you think it is, nor are the reasons for its existence.

I agree that generalization is to be avoided, as are stereotypes, along with the profound racism which people like yourself exhibit and encourage.

Why not discuss it with them? They will positively love you there. You are just like them!