Long story short I have a retarded family member who's a nurse who works on the covid Floor.. who had covid.. and 3 clot shots.. is making a big stink about me being unvaccinated and is causing a big stink regarding Christmas dinner.. she's basically trying to convince everyone and demanding I take a rapid test in my own fucking house.. I will absolutely not bend my knee for fucking anyone.. literally said GO FUCK YOURSELF YOU PYSCHO BITCH... Which caused a huge fight between me and my SO.. and now the paycho nurse is harrassing the rest of the family who do not give a shit about me being unvaccinated.. I said to her I really don't give a fuck if you're vaccinated and surrounded by covid patients all day.. why the fuck are you concerned about me?.. anyways.. I'm not shoving that shit up my nose.. should I swab some spit?... Blow my nose and swab that?.. swab some cum? Some fruits maybe?.. I don't give a fuck if I get a positive result.. or a negative.. I just don't want an inconclusive result.
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You probably dug yourself into a hole with your SO by losing your temper and yelling. Going through the motions of taking a test but sabotaging it just seems like digging yourself deeper. Perhaps try apologizing for the outburst to your SO and then her sister, and then either decide to take the test properly, or politely refuse and clearly set the terms of being a guest of your household? That could either be you "being left alone", or them choosing to either respect and tolerate your choices or not be welcome, but it's up to you and your SO.
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This is the most mature response here. You still have to go back to family in the end. And your SO has her own family. Nurse is pushing your buttons -> you react -> feel guilty about your outburst -> comply (females are good at this eh?). Don't burn your relationships by reacting. Just politely say no if that's what you decide. She has no power to physically force you. You'll prevail if you're stronger willed.
Maybe the nurse really is convinced you will get hurt without vaccines, and is getting frustrated you're putting yourself in harm's way. People who have family members who gamble, drink etc. must go through this kind of frustration too. Men tend to fight directly. Being a woman, she's using female tactics of manipulating you through people. Just tell her the family dynamic was all good until she tried using them against you, and now she'll create a rift between you and your SO if she's doesn't stop. You should get your other family members to agree not to let something they didn't care about create a rift and that no matter what, family > ideology. She'll get mad getting sidelined, just don't take the bait.
If you prevail, and she doesn't care about you, she'll distance herself. If she doesn't distance herself, then she's was probably doing out of concern for you and you shouldn't hold it against her.