Would you prefer if I call them sodomites, instead of the derisive "faggots"? What are you, the speech police. lol.

Bulling is bullying. It's wrong to do to children, and it's wrong to do to adults. Depending how much, and what is said, and who is doing it, and whether your job is on the line, some kid teased about being fat is not as bad as your boss holding your job hostage. In fact, it's worse. All else being held equal, kids cannot physically fight back if adults are bullying them. That's the extent of the difference.

You're peddling ice to an Eskimo, bucko.