The real issue, the most important issue, this woman needs to address is her inability to think critically until it affected her personally, and her willful ignorance until it affected her personally. Addressing those issues is how she must do her best to adjust and act accordingly. I don’t know if it’s a flaw in humanity, a genetic or intellectual defect, ironclad social conditioning, or what. It’s good that she’s had her illusions ripped away. She needs to have a reckoning with herself about why she put them there in the first place.