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Being a father has long term negative impacts on health. I don't know how anyone can seriously argue against that. If you are a committed father, it means you don't sleep in on weekends, you get up and take them places.

It means less time for yourself and more time focused on the kids. It means less leasure and more stress, it means less money and bigger bills.

Its like saying that women who don't have kids look better at 35 and women with kids. Ya, that's broadly true.