I feel like I’ve thought about this my entire life and can never wrap my head around it.
****On a merry go round the further you get from center the more centrifugal force you feel and consequently the more centripetal force (they are equal and opposite if you are at equilibrium). But at the center they are both net zero.
****On earth, presumably the equator would exert the maximum centripetal force due to it being the furthest away from the axis. The centripetal force keeping you on the ground is gravity and that equals your centrifugal force trying to fling you off earth.
****But at the poles, how….. and why….. where tf did gravity go? There’s no centrifugal force which means there’s no equal and opposite centripetal force (gravity).
(sigh)... I know why you're saying this, but it's wrong! Since the earth is a sphere, every point on earth has the exact same angular velocity. This means that people near the poles have effectively zero inertia (which, again, is what you're calling centrifugal force) So near the poles, effectively zero force is required to counteract the inertia.
Again, this is a difficult topic, and I doubt that many physics PhDs understand it.