Hello
If you hold any hatred in your heart, that's the devil at work.
If you hold ill will or intention towards your fellow man, that's the devil at work.
If you hold contempt for your neighbor because they live differently than you, that's the devil at work.
The devil can make you feel righteous and justified for withholding your love. But that's only because the devil.. is effective.
It was never, ever about being "cool."
It was about having love in your heart and remembering God. Treating others as you'd like to be treated.