If you scroll down to related websites, there are some good ones there. I've been researching it a lot because we might have a boy. My husband was on the fence, but is not anymore. He even wishes he could have it back. I appreciate the photos of the ways they perform this surgery. None of them seem pleasant. They also offer many photos of botched jobs. I never even knew how deformed it could get, as I'd never seen one like that.