More emphasis on the win-lose upbringing would be useful.
It's when you put kids in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation; when you don't let them develop a strong sense of reality.
When reality is too dangerous -- that is, mom or dad is abusive and you'd better not tell anyone.
I agree with you that child abuse is the main reason for adult mental illness.
The world would be so much better if we eliminated child abuse. Especially the everyday type -- it doesn't need to be so extreme that the kid is trafficked.
I think you're mostly right.
More emphasis on the win-lose upbringing would be useful.
It's when you put kids in a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation; when you don't let them develop a strong sense of reality.
When reality is too dangerous -- that is, mom or dad is abusive and you'd better not tell anyone.
I agree with you that child abuse is the main reason for adult mental illness.
The world would be so much better if we eliminated child abuse. Especially the everyday type -- it doesn't need to be so extreme that the kid is trafficked.