The same thing is done for many groups these days.... Russian, Ukrainian, Jews, Muslims, etc.

The problem is first we other...then we reinforce our own superiority...

Both are slightly wrong.

We should be acknowledging differences and accepting them, whilst allowing for mutual respect. I don't ask for people to do as I do....but I ask they allow me my rituals and I will allow theirs....provided neither infringe on more fundamentals.

Values.....common values....that is all that matters, then how to communicate them to one another