Friends, using any centralized "platform" or "service" is a bad idea. It's the antithesis of the P2P (peer to peer) architecture the internet was designed to deliver.
Please stop using reddit, .win, google, gdrive, cloudflare, free email services, and other platforms and services.
There is an alternative and it is the budding "fediverse." All the fediverse needs to succeed is people to start using it and participate in the projects by testing and giving use reports on what they use. That's how software gets better unless it is funded by mega corporations, and we know where that leads.
At least start! Find an XMPP server, an ActivityPup server (ex: Nextcloud, Mastodon) to use, or pay a nerd to build one for your community.
Decentralized is the only thing that can't be shut down in an internet outage.
End-to-end encryption (which is different from a service that has the word "Encrypted!" on its website) is the only way to keep messages private.
Start learning! If we don't improve out technical knowledge, we will be completely overrun - soon!
I got banned from one of the servers. Turns out he nutjob that runs it won't allow anyone with an ad-blocker to be on it. That should not even be possible, IMHO.
It's not possible, on your server that you control. The point is to stop thinking about this as a provider/customer relationship and take control of your tech.
Build a node yourself, work with friends to build one, or find a provider that does things the way you want and give him free hand jobs.
And who should be able to stop it? If someone can stop it, someone has central control.