I don't think gays are one monolith. There are the pervy gays you see at gay pride festivals, there are promiscuous gays that are out partying and sleeping around. There are annoying gays where being gay is their whole personality.

But there are also gays who don't make their sexuality their primary identity and are genuinely good people.

Being gay is not a choice, unless you're bisexual. (That's a different story) But some dudes like other dudes, it doesn't mean they can't be a decent person.

I have a bigger issue with transexuals, because I have to pretend along with them that they are another gender and it's retarded. Just be a femmy gay guy and life your life authentically. And quit indoctrinating kids.