you have asked questions yourself

Not for answers from others...but to dismantle the contradiction of both questions and answers within the natural solution of any problems.

destroys itself

Only during destruction (inception towards death) can one build (life)...it's holding onto words build by others which tempts one to ignore self destruction.

Give up

Only nature gives (inception) and takes (death) aka anode/anahodos (up the way) + cathode/katahodos (down the way) aka living within process of dying aka as above/so below.