White people, particularly white Americans, have created some of the worst women in the world. You are too cowardly to tell them the truth and too egalitarian to assert your leadership over them. As a result, the average American woman is a fragile narcissist incapable of handling basic truths about herself. A chick in her 30s needs constant validation that not only is she still attractive, but that now she is a BETTER CATCH than in her 20s. Who are we kidding here people?
It's not enough that people just want kind words, they want a delusion fed to them. In recent years this has extended to the "fat acceptance" movement and the trans insanity. It's all the same bullshit. We are expected to gaslight people as a cultural norm as we gaslight ourselves into thinking we're virtuous for it. It's lies and cowardice masquerading as virtue.
Disney is but on example of the greater point.
We all know or should know who is to blame. We all know there are collaborators within every group. The presence of collaborators within a group does not shift blame or responsibility onto the group. It also does not address that the group as a whole are under siege by Them and their collaborators.
Reading the rest of your post, it seems you get it. The problem is you are so caught up in defending a past that you didn't exist in that you are arguing with yourself.
I won’t have my history denigrated to serve the desires of modernity.
None of this is YOUR history. History just is.