If you want to 'get along' with a lot of people you have to capitulate to all of them, or at least pretend to agree with them to gain their acceptance. You have to, in a word, be fake.
If you have an opinion not formed by majority opinion in any group of people or situation and express it you will become the target of the aforementioned fake people. Why?
There is an old saying that goes something like this- every clique needs 3 main elements. A leader (someone that beats the drum for people to march to), a treasurer (someone that supplies resources of some sort), and a person or group of people that are under no circumstances allowed to join in.
This is because cliques of this nature are not based on inclusivity but exclusivity. The uniting factor is the 'others' that are never allowed to join in because fake people more than anything need someone to ridicule and exclude in order to have a uniting factor among the clique members.
Loners are people who refuse to sacrifice their integrity for popularity. Having morality does not make you a popular person. It makes you the odd man out subject to the petty faggotry of the majority of people that lack integrity. There is an old MLK speech on this where he keeps using the word 'maladjusted', I think it's his best.
This seems obvious.
If you want to 'get along' with a lot of people you have to capitulate to all of them, or at least pretend to agree with them to gain their acceptance. You have to, in a word, be fake.
If you have an opinion not formed by majority opinion in any group of people or situation and express it you will become the target of the aforementioned fake people. Why?
There is an old saying that goes something like this- every clique needs 3 main elements. A leader (someone that beats the drum for people to march to), a treasurer (someone that supplies resources of some sort), and a person or group of people that are under no circumstances allowed to join in.
This is because cliques of this nature are not based on inclusivity but exclusivity. The uniting factor is the 'others' that are never allowed to join in because fake people more than anything need someone to ridicule and exclude in order to have a uniting factor among the clique members.
Loners are people who refuse to sacrifice their integrity for popularity. Having morality does not make you a popular person. It makes you the odd man out subject to the petty faggotry of the majority of people that lack integrity. There is an old MLK speech on this where he keeps using the word 'maladjusted', I think it's his best.