So someone chooses an abnormal lifestyle then is surprised when they are not warmly accepted by everyone. Then they get depressed and angry that their choice gets pushback. So they take it out on other people. At the very least it is bad decision-making, and at the worst it is mental illness.

If I see someone wearing demon horns in a library performing a drag show to naive children I'm not going to offer them Christian charity. I'm going to use my green laser and set their horns on fire.