When the mod deleted my post a message showed up (for everyone other than me) saying I deleted it
There is no option to do that in the mod tools. If we delete something it just says "comment deleted'. Unless something has changed with the new website. But I'm using the new one and the mod tools are the same as the old as far as I can see.
As to when a mod deletes a comment and you can still see it but no one else can - that was the same on reddit. I agree it sucks. That's why some bright spark made that reveddit extension that notified you when it happened. Maybe we'll have something like that here one day.
There is no option to do that in the mod tools. If we delete something it just says "comment deleted'. Unless something has changed with the new website. But I'm using the new one and the mod tools are the same as the old as far as I can see.
As to when a mod deletes a comment and you can still see it but no one else can - that was the same on reddit. I agree it sucks. That's why some bright spark made that reveddit extension that notified you when it happened. Maybe we'll have something like that here one day.
The screen shot above is the message I get when I look where the post once was.
Edit: that's what I see when I'm logged off this site.